What we are doing, and why

...a rather ambitious subject line, I know, and I doubt I'll manage a thorough explanation at 3am, but here goes. First of all, in case you've wandered across this site by accident, or this is the first you've heard from me in many years, I'll update you a bit on my life over the past six years. I graduated from Stanford University in 1999 with a BA in English. I then moved to Los Angeles...I know, what the hell was I thinking?...where I've been living ever since. Unfortunately, shortly after moving there, my mother died of cancer, which devastated me emotionally and changed my life forever. Ultimately, after seeking help from a therapist, I felt inspired to help others who have been through similar experiences by studying psychology myself. I've nearly completed my MA, but had to temporarily put my education on hold due to a number of factors, the most significant being that my stepmother, Marilyn, is now ill with cancer. She is undergoing chemotherapy and she and my father appreciate positive thoughts/prayers during this time.

In addition to my graduate studies, I have been developing an idea for a nonprofit organization, which I hope to make my life's work. The mission of Noble Paws will be to rescue dogs from shelters and with the help of at-risk teens, train them to assist people with disabilities. Of course in the meantime I've been "testing" this idea, well at least that is my excuse - and I now have THREE crazy pups - Arthur, Kyla, and Elphaba. Well, technically, Elphaba is Kristi's service dog in training, which brings me to my next topic...

My co-blogger, traveling companion, and life partner is the beautiful Kristi. From the day we met last year, we knew we were meant to be together, and our love grows stronger each day. I expect that a few of you will be surprised to find out that I am a lesbian, but it is something that have known for many years. I waited a long time for the right woman to come along, and I feel so very lucky to have found her. My father and stepmom have met and love Kristi as well, and she is a welcome part of our family. Expect a wedding invitation sometime in the next couple of years! :)

We're a happy couple, with big dreams, big plans, and big challenges ahead of us. We both want to continue our educations, start our nonprofit, and start a family, but we have a lot to do before we can get to that point. First and foremost, we have to get the hell out of LA. The weather is great here, but the people are egotistical and housing prices are astronomical. We need to find a place where we can buy several acres of rural land for the organization, yet still not be too far away from culture, the arts, and educational opportunities. We also need to live in a place that is accepting, where we have rights and where "family values" means valuing ALL families. Unfortunately, that pretty much means moving somewhere colder, but we don't know where yet - hence the road trip, to explore various places as well as catch up with friends and family.

We will be traveling in a 34 ft RV, pulling the big green van...thank goodness for backup cameras! We bought this RV because it is both beautiful and functional - wheelchair accessible and we're having it customized for us, plus it has a dishwasher AND washer/dryer! Our route as very tentatively planned out thus far will take us through the following states (not necessarily in this order): Nevada, Utah, Arizona, Colorado, New Mexico, Kansas, Nebraska, Missouri, Minnesota (Kristi's home state; we'll be attending her sister's wedding), South Dakota, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, Connecticut, Rhode Island, Massachusetts, Vermont, Maine.

We'll be traveling at a fairly slow pace, and with a friend or friends whenever possible. (If you're interested in joining us starting in mid-July in the Midwest, please e-mail us!) Kristi has severe fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome, and was just diagnosed recently so she hasn't yet found the best treatment. Therefore, if we don't find someone to accompany us and share the driving for the East Coast portion of our trip, we may have to cut things short. Hopefully we will get it worked out!

Well, it's extremely late and I must get to bed, but that was a good start & quick summary of what we're up to!